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So Insecure!!

Had an unpleasant chat with someone I barely know today. She is somewhat infuriated with the post I did about the love letter. At first I was okay with the conversation but then she went way out of line. So I decided not as payback but as a warning to share what we talked about.
This is kinda long so bear with me ok..

chingkay_m5:
Kit-kat: sino ka bha?
Kit-kat: kilala bha kita?
chingkay_m5: yeah GF ni konel
chingkay_m5: jonel *
Kit-kat: AHH..bakit...anong kailangan?
chingkay_m5: ahm ....la lng..
Kit-kat: ahh ok..cge have a nice day
chingkay_m5: nakapag move on knb?
chingkay_m5: napasok ko yung blog mo ...
chingkay_m5: nakita ko don ang love letter ni jonel ....
chingkay_m5: napaisip lng ...na hanggang ngayun mahal mo pa nga sya
chingkay_m5: tma ka nga don ....sau nga yun kaya karapatan mong ilagay sa blog mo
chingkay_m5: naisip ko lng ....di mo pa nga sya nakalimutan
Kit-kat: alam mo nakakatawa ka..
Kit-kat: i don't owe you any explanation and i don't think i have to tell you anything..don't you think its non of your business
chingkay_m5: yeah .... gusto ko lng sabihin sau na stop dreaming my BF ok
chingkay_m5: di moba naisip sya ang nakipag hiwalay sau
Kit-kat: hay naku girl his all yours..if you are confident about where you are in his life then you don't have to worry
chingkay_m5: like nagcomment ka sa blog ni jonel ....
chingkay_m5: di ko alam kong bkt kapa nag papa ramdam a kanya
Kit-kat: yeah like 48 years ago..
chingkay_m5: anu yan ...paawa effect ??
chingkay_m5: hahahaha
Kit-kat: alam mo if you think its funny ..then laugh all you want..
chingkay_m5: isipin mo naman ..may GF sya ok ???
chingkay_m5: bisan pag unsaonn nimog paramdam niya ...ayw na niya sayo ok
Kit-kat: but i know deep down you're not laughing dear..you are picking a fight with the wrong person..kung naiinis ka then post your own letter or make your own blog..
chingkay_m5: hiniwalayan kana niya ...di mo ba naisip yun
Kit-kat: don't you tell me what to do..what to post and what not to post..wala kay karapatan
chingkay_m5: i just feel pity for you .....kc until now ..ur still suffering sa pag iwan ni jonel sayo
Kit-kat: ohh really slamat sa awa dear..i really need that
chingkay_m5: sooooo stop na ang pagparamdam mo sa kanya dahil kahitanong mangyari ......dili na sya mubalik nimo
chingkay_m5: look at you ....hey di kayu bagay dont u thing about it hahahah
Kit-kat: nagparamdam pa bha ako?
chingkay_m5: oppppsss ...sory no ofens ha
Kit-kat: i know oning is not after how a person looks..he's more on the attitude i just hope he doesn't find out about what you're doing now
Kit-kat: alam ko hindi ako maganda miss but when we were together di ako nang away na ibang babae na na associate sa kanya di ako ganun ka insecure girl..
chingkay_m5: yeah aawayin ko lahat ..kaya watch out kayo !
chingkay_m5: lalo na YOU!
chingkay_m5: wag kanang magparamdam sa kanya mag move on kana
chingkay_m5: kung di kana makapag move on i dont care
chingkay_m5: peo wag kng manggulo sa relasyun namin .....
Kit-kat: pano ako nang gulo?
Kit-kat: anong ginawa ko para guluhin kayo?
chingkay_m5: papaawa effect k lng naman ....
chingkay_m5: pinag awayan pa namin yung pag comment mo sa blog niya ...mahiya ka naman ...may gf na sya
Kit-kat: bakit mo inaway?anong kasalanan niya don?anong sinabi ko na dapat pag awayan niyo..
Kit-kat: hindi ako ang problema ikaw at siya
Kit-kat: kaya kung mat problem kayo wag nyo ako idamay
Kit-kat: please lang
chingkay_m5: nagpaparamdam kapa kunyari maawa sya sau
chingkay_m5: come on ...alam kong alam mo ang bigi kong sabihin
Kit-kat: ewan ko sayo..may sira ka ata eh..
chingkay_m5: look ....di ako nakipag away ....nag pm ko to tell you na mag move on kana
chingkay_m5: and stop dreaming my BF
Kit-kat: ok..if you say so..pero if your looking for a war ill give you one..don't ever think aatrasan kita..
chingkay_m5: ur funny di moko kilala gurl
Kit-kat: lalo na ako..
Kit-kat: wanna know me?
chingkay_m5: ic
Kit-kat: wait lang ha..may post lang ako sa blog ko..
Kit-kat: u might wanna read it..
Kit-kat: more love letter and flowers pa..
chingkay_m5: owww...i dont wanna waste my time to read ur blog....
chingkay_m5: nakakawa ka kath ...di mo ba naisip na c jonel nakipaghiwalay sayo
Kit-kat: owww..really..pano mo kaya nabasa yong love letter kung di ka sumisilip don..
chingkay_m5: nakakaawa ka tgla ..mukha ka lng ka2long ni jonel
chingkay_m5: u should know ur level
Kit-kat: i know that..did i say otherwise
Kit-kat: hay naku di na kita papatulan kasi as if naman super gwapa ka
chingkay_m5:
Last message received on 7/24 at 5:25 PM

When I made that post the last thing on my mind was to cause any trouble in other people's relationship. I did not expect this kind of reaction from her. Now I know that she visits my blog and check my posts. But the big question is why? If I am not a threat to her or if she is so sure about herself then she shouldn't react the way she reacted. Feel sad for her. And I am sorry if I caused them trouble. Did not mean to.
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15 comments:

  1. Unknown
    July 24, 2009 at 5:19 PM

    oh my... i didn't know she has a nasty attitude. how sad. just goes to show that your past with oning still haunts/threatens her bcoz she wouldn't say those hurtful words not unless she's really affected dba? tsk...

    it's not u i pity but her. may she find peace in her heart and mind. amen! :)

  1. Anonymous
    July 24, 2009 at 5:27 PM

    blog hopping! it's my first time here. hope you add me.

    by the way, sino ba yang chingkay na yan? she sounds/looks like a big loser. kawawa naman. wag mo na patulan kasi di naman kayo magka level. she's waaaaay down your level.

    there i said it. hihi. bye! add me okay?

  1. Beng
    July 24, 2009 at 10:55 PM

    korek girl, super insecure nga..grabe ha! ang OA naman nya...

  1. Lulu
    July 25, 2009 at 12:17 AM

    oh my gulay to the highest level na ang beauty mo kat.... imagine she is jealous with you and she thinks you are a threat... naku iba na talaga ang kagandahan mo sister!!!!

    I have had almost similar situation with you (only that he is not my X just a very close friend) her jealousy to me is to the highest level din. It is sad though as I have to let go of the friendship at sa mga pinagsamahan. Even until now, she still feels threaten... geezz we are all married now and with families..

    sometimes nakakainis... pero hey ganyan ang buhay kapag MAGANDA ka! wahhhhh

  1. Umma
    July 25, 2009 at 7:07 AM

    This is so funny my pretty sis.. I know she will be reading all the reactions here and I want to post my opinion so she could read it all the way.

    You are totally right, she is one insecure damsel in distress. Her lack of confidence about her relationship with that guy only shows that theirs are doomed to nothing.

    Which means her frivolous remarks lead her to a dire consequences and desperation to attract attention.

    For the reason that you are posing a threat to her current relationship that's why she is all out reaching you all the way to intrude your peaceful world.

    Somehow, it sounds like a complement to you knowing that some people is acting over anxiously to get some sympathy.

    Ignore her and live life to the fullest.. you don't need a loser.

    BTW, you forgot to email me about your plans in going abroad, tell me, tell me :) Im excited. mwah mwah!!

  1. Chie Wilks
    July 25, 2009 at 7:11 AM

    my God sis, sno ba tong chingkay na to at tatalupan natin hehehe joke... i am just wondering kong bakit affected xa sa posts mo sis kong nasa kanya naman na ang guy..she is such a loser and yes, insecure..she should be happy na nsa knya na ung guy..Oh my God, this reminded me of my past fight with other girl..pero she should not be entertained..nkakasira sya ng mood hehee

  1. poray
    July 25, 2009 at 7:24 AM

    asarin mo girl..post ka ng pic nyo ni oning baka talagang atakehin na un lol...napakadaming insecure sa world oi

  1. Dhemz
    July 25, 2009 at 3:02 PM

    nyahahahhaa....I second the motion with what sistah Umz have said....:)

    Indeed...super duper insecure ang babaeng ito inday sis....she knows that your pretty and smart than her...to think about it...GF palang sya ano...why, are they married? nako may chances pa na magkakahiwalay sila....who knows one of these days, sya rin yung hihiwalayan...naawa ako sa kanya...bahala na si batman sa kanya...depress and frustrated ata tong chingkay na ito...may nerve pang mag IM sayo....take a deep breath inday sis....she's nothing compare to you....gusto ko syang kakaratehin...lol!

  1. katherine
    July 25, 2009 at 3:55 PM

    nyahahaha..wazzz happeninnn that woman..nayhaha.. super duper baliw..sana mabasa nya to. di na sya nahiya sa mga pinagsasabi nya. how old is she ba, baka immature pa kaya ganyang kung magsalita..nasa kanya pala yong guy, eh di, talian nya sa baywang or leeg ng di maka takas. Di ba nya naisip na sa ginawa nya sa iyo ay iiwanan tuloy sya ng guy kasi naniniwala ako na kahit ano pang nangyari sa relationship nyong dalawa kat, eh mayron pang natitirang kahit kunting tibok sa puso nya para sa iyo at yon ang naramdaman ng girl sa bf nya kay insecure sya.

    Hay..buhay..pag tinamaan ng sibat ni kupido, di na alam gumawa ng tama at di na nakapag-iisip ng tama. Pabayaan mo na lang siya Kat. wag mo ng pansinin. sa ginawa nya, bistado tuloy sya kung anong klaseng babae sya.

    Pero bilib ako sayo "ngay" professional ka pa rin sumasagot sa kanya pero sya ramdam ko, nang gagalaiti na sa galit hehehe. kung ako yon, baka sumabog ulit ang Mt. Pinatubo nyayayahaha

  1. Unknown
    July 25, 2009 at 9:07 PM

    Haaayyyy thanks for sharing this kat, I had a good laugh, I bit babasahin niya uli ito, so parang kinain na rin nya word nya na hindi interesado sa blog mo pero ayan, nang aaway pa nga. Insecure na siya kat, kalingaw gd, hala kambrasa ang kilay waaaaaaaaaa. Magbuot d i kung mag post ug loveletter, ingna kat ipa post sd iya bibliya. Sa ma S lng.

  1. Jilyn
    July 25, 2009 at 10:34 PM

    Ang haba ng hair mo gurl kasi nagjelly pa siya sayo which means hindi siya sigurado na love siya ng partner nya. haha..i pity on her. Wag mo na patulan girl kasi she is surely INSECURE sa iyo. INSICURITY KILLS! right?

  1. Tiff
    July 26, 2009 at 3:15 AM

    oo nga! i agree with jilyn. wala pa namang gamot sa insecurity. hihihi! cguradong nanggagalaiti na yon sa galit at inggit. loser! hahaha!

  1. Gayla
    July 26, 2009 at 3:20 AM

    from what i've read.. it's not you and hindi nakapag move on but it's her. she can't get over (over) your past relationship with that guy. she is hopeless. kawawa naman. why can't she focus on the PRESENT? i hope she's reading this para matauhan sya. and she's acting so immaturely. walang magtatagal na lalaki sa buhay nya kung ganyan ang ugali nya. hoy gising! bwahahaha!

  1. brandy
    July 26, 2009 at 3:27 AM

    chingkay_m5: pinag awayan pa namin yung pag comment mo sa blog niya ...mahiya ka naman ...may gf na sya <--- what the f*ck!? this girl needs to get a life! hahahaha! pati ba naman comments sa blog pinakikialaman. don't you have other things to do chingkay gurl? hahahaha! you are soooooo amusing! ka-cheapan! hahaha!

  1. amiable amy
    July 27, 2009 at 11:45 PM

    Kittykat gwapa, samok jud niang mga tawo nga abi nila GWAPA sila noh? Abi nko ako ra gi-ingnan ug murag ka2long...waaa...ikatawa nalang nato ang attack nga inana girl. Ang ending ang importante diba? Ila pa ang halakhak karon, sa huli ang sayo.

    Anyway, dami ko talaga natutuhan sa blogging. With you (this case) and to our friend Umma. I still can not believe how other people think that they are much more righteous and pretty than others. Hala, ilaha na tanan dayeg sa ila kaugalingon. Magpakahilom nalang ta...pray nalang nato ang ila peace of heart.

    Dah! balita dayon kung unsay update ani ha? Ako, muni-muni lang ko ani.

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