Having an affair with a married man is foolishness but having with a relationship with a married, irresponsible, childish and selfish man is stupidity. Well they say that when a person falls in love he or she becomes blinded by that love. Maybe what I was trying to do was to provide her with eyeglasses so that she can see clearer. She might not listen to me now, I maybe be the worst sister but still I pray to God that she will open her eyes very soon and realize she deserves someone better.
Having an affair with a married man is foolishness but having with a relationship with a married, irresponsible, childish and selfish man is stupidity. Well they say that when a person falls in love he or she becomes blinded by that love. Maybe what I was trying to do was to provide her with eyeglasses so that she can see clearer. She might not listen to me now, I maybe be the worst sister but still I pray to God that she will open her eyes very soon and realize she deserves someone better.
11 comments:
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Umma
July 21, 2009 at 1:38 AMI guess you already did your part pretty sis by giving her your word of advice.
Obviously, people in love easily get deprived of sight in seeing the flaws of her/his beloved that will result to a broken heart.
Granted that she is cognizant of her fallacious affair, yet she remained mum about the truth because she is clouded with her emotion.
But eventually, she will realize the fact that being tangled in a deceitful relationship could aggravate more the grievances in the end.
Just continue praying to her welfare and be positive that soon, she will realize that you've made a good point.
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frostygirl
July 21, 2009 at 3:25 AMI hope for her sake that she opens her eyes soon because this can only be heartache for her if he has an affair outside of marriage he will do so again and again, he cannot be trusted.
Just remain her sister and her friend she will need you
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Lulu
July 21, 2009 at 4:22 AMa relationship like this is really hard to understand... and i can't tolerate somebody doing this... but hey you did your part... kapag dumating ang araw na ma realize nya na mali ang relasyon nila.. i hope you still have the will to help her cope up...
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Meryl (proud pinay)
July 21, 2009 at 5:35 AMnako sis saludo ako sa iyo sa pagiging sister mo...tama yan ginagawa mo and continue ka lang magpayo hanggang sa mamulat ang isipan nya na mali pala ang kanyang ginagawa. and ofcourse sabayan ng prayer para ..may guidance ni Lord
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Unknown
July 21, 2009 at 7:06 AMNayabag na jud d i na siya sa gugmang gi atay sis. I have friend like that though, they guy is not married but we know the guy was dating someone else while they are still together. The guy just popped out to our school to picked her up if payday waaaaa. Ginadiscouraged namu siya, among friend naman hinuon nilayo sa grupo. Last night I was chatting to my friend and asked them if they are still together or planning to settle down soon, yup they arestill together but no plan to settle down.
I hope one day your friend would wake up and realize all that.
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Beng
July 21, 2009 at 12:33 PMjust continue doing it girl...you're on the right track c",)
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Tetcha
July 21, 2009 at 4:37 PMIn time, I hope your friend realizes that you just care for her well-being. She might not see it right now because she's too in love.
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Dhemz
July 21, 2009 at 11:07 PMYou did your part sis...and I am very proud of you....it is very hard to confront someone lalo na pag friend/close friend mo...all you did is to protect her and let her know that facts....I guess some people believe that love is blind....nyahahha.....:) ahak nga gugma....just wondering....kinsa man ni? nyahahhaa..nakichismis pa jud!
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Clarissa
July 22, 2009 at 6:25 AMAt least nasabi mo na sa kanya ang dapat mong sabihin sa kanya--it is all up to her on how she will handle it.And when the times comes for her na di pala dapat ipagpatuloy ang bawal,she will be reminded of what you have said to her at maiisip nya na dapat nakinig cya sa yo.
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CHIKAI ♥
July 22, 2009 at 6:35 PMi'll pray for her... *sigh*
July 20, 2009 at 4:46 PM
ow mahirap nga yan..but you know what after you have tell her everything embrace and her and tell her na hindi ka kaaway.. that she can always have you kahit anu mangyari..
ngayon kasi nabubulagan sya.. she knows it isn't right din naman..
continue praying for her..