Bounce with me on this one guys, do you know why there are people who seemed to have the nerves of steel, and are able to weather personal problems and crisis that comes their way smoothly and confidently while others burst out wailing at a mere simple thought of having a zit on their face?
There are ways to be as confident and successful in facing life’s adversities as these people do. There are ways to unleash “The Inner Survivor” in you. Here’s what I discovered.
1.Self Insight
Realize that each situation, whether good or bad, will reflect your true nature by the way you react to it. If you are a true survivor your level of self-awareness will be heightened and you will take note how you react with tragedies. Do not deny yourself to experience each stage of the problem because that will eventually lead to moving on. Allow yourself to grieve and do not pretend that everything’s okay.
Realize that each situation, whether good or bad, will reflect your true nature by the way you react to it. If you are a true survivor your level of self-awareness will be heightened and you will take note how you react with tragedies. Do not deny yourself to experience each stage of the problem because that will eventually lead to moving on. Allow yourself to grieve and do not pretend that everything’s okay.
2.Self-Respect
No matter what kind of crisis you are in do not loose your self-respect and sense of self worth. Always believe that despite all that has happened, no matter how embarrassing the situation may be your self-respect will never be diminished. Instead use it as inspiration to better yourself and improve, make something positive out something very negative.
No matter what kind of crisis you are in do not loose your self-respect and sense of self worth. Always believe that despite all that has happened, no matter how embarrassing the situation may be your self-respect will never be diminished. Instead use it as inspiration to better yourself and improve, make something positive out something very negative.
3.Ready, Willing and Open
Let go, forgive and accept. Let go of all your emotional baggage, they will just drag you down. You have to be proactive in times of tragedy, and see suffering as an opportunity to heal old wounds and discover new ways to live life. Let the experience teach you and you’ll learn. As they say experience is the best teacher, if you refuse to feel angry or defeated because of a certain setback in your life the learning process will never occur. Open your mind and accept changes. Since change is the only constant thing on this earth.
Let go, forgive and accept. Let go of all your emotional baggage, they will just drag you down. You have to be proactive in times of tragedy, and see suffering as an opportunity to heal old wounds and discover new ways to live life. Let the experience teach you and you’ll learn. As they say experience is the best teacher, if you refuse to feel angry or defeated because of a certain setback in your life the learning process will never occur. Open your mind and accept changes. Since change is the only constant thing on this earth.
Now you can sing along with the Destiny’s Child singing “I’m a survivor”…
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