Before you go gaga with my post's title let me clear things first. I had a date with my sister's x-boyfriend yesterday. It was not a romantic date, if you must know. He asked for my help, he was thinking of buying my sister a gift for her b-day and he wanted my opinion, he wants to make sure the sister would love it. But I told him maybe its not a good idea to buy her a gift at all. See they broke up almost for a year now and I can tell he is still hoping that they could get back together. But I can tell my sister is not interested anymore. I gave him a piece of my mind without telling him straight that its useless to try and please her but instead I convinced him to try to keep himself busy with other things like what I did..LOL...I can totally relate to what his going through and I know people has different ways of coping with heartaches. I can tell he is still in the stage of denial, its a hard stage but I think the hardest thing to do is accepting that the person who matters most to you is no longer part of your life and if in case she still a part of it the only thing she can offer is friendship. Well that's the price you pay when you love, there are things in life that happens even if we don't want it to. Things that are out of our control, who would wanna get hurt right??But pain teaches us a lot of things. It makes us realize things we would not realize if we weren't hurt. It's part of growing up as they say. It should make us better not the other way around..Gosh what's with me today...Feeling expert on life' lesson huh..LOL..Just bear with me I just have so much time today to blog that's why..
9 comments:
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October 8, 2008 at 11:15 AM
Looks like that guy had not grown up. However, the first relationship is the one toughest to let go in the first place
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October 8, 2008 at 12:31 PM
Wow! your post reminds me of my bestfriend's ex too..I know its easy to say but if you were in his shoes.. you can relate to his feelings.
Some people have a hard time moving on and still lingers with their past. But I believe everything will pass and the wound will be healed. It's only a matter of time and he will be singing Joey Albert' song " I remember the boy but I dont remember the feelings anymore.
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October 8, 2008 at 7:02 PM
aww mhal na mhal pden nya ung kptid mu and he's still hoping.. wawa nman pero wala tau mggwa kung friendship nlang tlga maiooffer ng kptid mu.. tama ka jan we learned alot from pain naku nako dme ku din nrealze dhil sa pain na un.. aww
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October 9, 2008 at 10:29 AM
very well said girl ...i hope you did not give him your blog address kasi double sakit yun LOL...anyways, heartaches is painful indeed pero d naman nakakamatay yan eh... i been to that 10years ago...i am over it...ganun talaga buhay...if you are not meant to be...d talaga...good job for giving him advise
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October 9, 2008 at 6:09 PM
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October 9, 2008 at 11:16 PM
It is always hard when the one you think is perfect for you does not feel the same way. Been there done that. The best thing for that is just time.
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October 10, 2008 at 6:34 PM
Aaw...Poor guy. Hay buhay. Pag-ibig nga naman... :)
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October 15, 2008 at 2:20 AM
thanks for sharing your thoughts LOVE GURU! hehehe! speaking like a seasoned lover. LOL!
kawawa naman si X oi. he's still hoping pa pala? how can he handle it when they're working in the same place? haayy... ingna sya ako na lng iyang regaluhan. hahaha!
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October 8, 2008 at 11:11 AM
hi sis.. thanks for dropping by at my site..
as i read your entry, parang it made me think that you're an expert in giving advices when it comes to problems.. I hope na maging ok na yung x-bf ng sis mo, and para di na din siya umasa sa wala.. mahirap din kasing umasa.. ganun kasi ko, laging umaasa, kaya nasasaktan lang.. tsk tsk..
very well said talaga ang entry mo na toh.. nakaka inspire.. :D